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Saturday, December 31, 2016

2016: Year in Review

Here we are at the end of another year; one that was wonderful, eventful and very fun!
Even though I didn't blog as much in 2016, it was a year full of great adventures, family time and lots of stories to tell.  I sure hope one day our kids know how lucky they are and also how happy they make our lives. 
So, with that said..here's my annual photo dump, where I attempt to summarize our year. 
Happy Blogging!

We kicked off January with a little weekend getaway to Tampa to meet our new cousin, Santiago, who was born on January 4th..he is the 3rd of 2nd generation boy cousins from Iggy's family, born in the same order as him and his cousins.. so this picture was quite special for all of them. 


In mid-January we had Oliver's baptism, which was one of the highlights of our year... it was such a special moment and a great opportunity to get all our family together...


In early February, the girls celebrated Grandparents' Day at school and my mom was able to spend some time with them in their classrooms. 


Also in February, Gaby's friend Lucienne came to visit from Peru and they had such a fun time hanging out and bonding; she also met Oliver and he took to her very quickly.. it was so cute to see. 


I, of course, also enjoyed some time with my friend Claudia (Luci's mom) and had a great time catching up on our life stuff. 


February weather was great for some local tourism and we spent a lot of time outside, including a trip to Wyndwood Art District here in Miami. 


Oliver celebrated his first Valentine's Day and this is about the cutest pictures we have taken of all 3 kids together. <3 p="">

In early February, my good friend Gaby welcome her 2nd baby, Anabella, and Olivia had so much fun holding her and being around a newborn again...


Our sweet niece Erika turned 9 in February...


In March, Oliver and I reached 9 months of exclusive breastfeeding and I bought him this shirt, which is so funny so this picture just HAD to make the cut in my annual photo dump!


He also started sitting on his own in early March and this was the first time I captured it in a picture...even though he was still a little wobbly here, his smile is just precious...


In mid-March, we got a visit from our favorite Finn, our cousin Poika came from Helsinki and spent a few days in Miami; he met Oliver and we had a great time catching up...


Here's a picture of Oliver's first St. Patrick's Day and the kids looking ever so adorable dressed in green.


Oliver had his first taste of food around 6 months.  He wasn't too fond of baby food so we went straight to table foods (baby led weaning), which is probably the best decision we've ever made since he's probably the best eater out of our 3 kids; he did so well with textures from the get-go and loves pretty much anything we give him...


In April we embarked on our 3rd family trip to Europe (Oliver's first) and we had the most wonderful time.. We focused on Eastern Europe and visited 4 beautiful cities: Berlin, Prague, Vienna and Budapest.. I cannot talk enough about how wonderful that trip was and how happy we were to have spent those days traveling as a family of 5...we're already planning our next one!


Here are the kids with Iggy at the Berlin Wall, quite the piece of history...


Having fun at the Prague train station...


We spent Easter in Prague and one of my dreams came true when we attended mass at the church of the Infant of Prague, what an amazing place and vibe.. I cry just thinking about it...


Here's a picture of me in Vienna.. one of the most beautiful cities I've ever seen...


...and here's us in Budapest, probably the biggest gem in Eastern Europe.. way too pretty...


My father in law came to visit in late April and the kids had such a great time hanging with their grandpa...


In late April we celebrated by uncle Daniel's 50th birthday with a great party at our house...


Here's "Boob Man" and another one of those EPIC pictures that just HAD to make the cut.. this is what happens when you have sisters.. Oliver is such a good sport...


Here's a picture of us on Mother's Day, one of the most special dates during the month of May...


In early May, Iggy received one of the biggest surprises of the year; his best friend came from Argentina and showed up at the house...they hadn't seen each other in over 10 years so Iggy was so ecstatic when he showed up.. I am proud to say that I was part of making this surprise a reality and it felt so good to see Iggy's face when he saw Damian walking through that door!


Some of the pictures from our May visitors... what a great month that was...


My friend Mary's twin daughters also graduated in May so that was another happy moment this year..


In late May we went to Legoland for the first time. Even though the park itself was disappointment and we'll probably never go back, we had a great time and the day was nice and hot...we also got some cute pictures out of it..


I met up with my friend Patty, who happened to be in Orlando when we visited; it was such a great meet up; we've been friends for almost 30 years so it's always good to catch up...


In June, as the end of the school year approached, the girls got to celebrate their "early" birthdays with donuts for the class...


Here they are on their last day of school.. by early June they were done with 1st and 3rd grade and we took our annual uniform picture... :)


As soon as school was over, we hopped on a plane and headed to Panama for a month; Oliver was great on the plane and the girls helped out a lot during the trip..


Probably the best part of our Panama trip was meeting up with my aunt Laurita, who came to stay with us during that whole month. My aunt lives in Venezuela and we hadn't seen her in over 2 years; it was quite the emotional encounter..


Oliver went in the pool for the first time, which is hard to believe considering he was already 9 months old and we live in sunny South Florida but for some reason we did wait that long...


We also celebrated Father's Day in Panama; Iggy's first as a father of 3...


While we were in Panama, Gaby and I took a few days to visit her friend Lucienne in Lima, Peru. Our friends, the Wadsworth family, were such great hosts and showed us a good time during our visit. Gaby was in disbelief when she was able to surprise her friend and they had the most wonderful time..


In early July, Oliver started "cruising" and showing some independence. Gaby was such a proud big sister...


Here's a  picture of the kids on the 4th of July (our 3rd that we spent out of the US, ironically enough). Even though he was very sick that day, he did pose for a picture...


Oliver's sickness landed him in the ER that day, but thankfully he got better and it was nothing major...


While in Panama, we celebrated Iggy's 40th birthday with a small gathering in our rental apartment. 


On Iggy's birthday, we also welcomed our nephew Sebastian, who was born in Zanesville, Ohio.. probably the best birthday present Iggy has ever received!


When we came back from Panama, we had another birthday celebration with our family..


During the summer, the kids spent some time enjoying the beach.. Oliver's first time...


The girls celebrated their 7th and 9th birthdays.. This is the first year they've asked for separate birthday parties, which made me a little sad, but I guess it's part of growing up...Gaby's was a bowling party and Olivia's was a painting party...


Gaby's friend Lucienne visited again in July and they had so much fun playing together...


In late July, we found out we'll be having a niece in early 2017. The gender reveal was such a great family experience and I can say that the moment that balloon popped and pink confetti came out was another one of the highlights of our year..I'm so glad we captured the moment...


In August we celebrated World Breastfeeding Week (my first one ever!). I took this picture to cherish the memory forever...


During that month, Iggy, Oliver and I traveled to Colombia to attend the wedding of one of my good friends.  We spent a few great days in Cartagena and Barranquilla and it was nice to get away for a few days...I met up with some old friends and partied so much at the wedding! ;)


In mid-August we traveled to Ohio to visit my brother in law and his family. We met our new nephew Sebastian and the girls enjoyed their time with their cousin Isabella...


This was the first time all the grandchildren were together in one picture! Quite the historic moment...


In August I launched my sweet business (The Sweet Business) with my good friend Mary. We are having so much fun with this endeavor...


Back to school in late August, and here's our traditional photo...


We traveled to Orlando again in September to visit some family. We also got annual passes to Universal Studios and the girls had such a blast going on all the crazy roller coasters...


We celebrated my uncle Tavo's birthday in September...


In September I lived the saddest moment of the year. I lost my dear godmother on the eve of her 80th birthday; she was the most special woman in the world and even though she had severe Alzheimer's disease, her death was so sad and I will forever miss her...


Olivia said bye to her braces in September..she was so excited and her teeth look so good now...


I took Olivia to the Meghan Trainor concert; it was such a cute mother-daughter date and Olivia was so happy to be there with me...


On September 25th, we celebrated Oliver's first birthday and this was the cake my friend Mary and I made for him.. it was our first "official" cake and everyone enjoyed it so much...


October rolled around and it was all about pumpkins and friends...


We met our friends Benji and Rebecca, who are part of my internet board "The Pumpkin Patch".. the babies were so cute together and we hope to get together again soon! 


My sister Claudia graduated with her master's degree in mid October and even though I couldn't attend her graduation (it was in Arizona), I was so proud to see her achieve another one of her goals.. Keep it up sis!


Another one of our trips to Orlando... this time was in late October and the weather was just lovely...


Election time rolled around and things got intense...but Oliver didn't seem to mind the tense political climate...


The girls in their Halloween costumes....


...and my favorite Mickey Mouse... who happens to be the winner of a costume contest....


In November, Gaby participated in her last ever All Saints Parade at school.. she was dressed as the Virgin Mary and was so happy to bid farewell to her dress-up years at school...


By November, Oliver was already a pro walker; he started walking a week or two after his first birthday and never looked back.. 


We celebrated my mom's birthday on Election Day, so we were able to get our minds off election stress for a bit...


On Veteran's weekend we took our last trip to Orlando for the year 2016; the girls enjoyed their time as usual and we made some great memories...


On November 18th, Iggy and I celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary... <3 p="">

Oliver kicked off Thanksgiving season with this cute Turkey hat picture...


I hosted my sister's baby shower in mid-November.. it was a huge success and we can't wait to meet baby Mariana this February...


Oliver's first encounter with Santa this year.. he seemed amused..


Family @ Thanksgiving...


Our "Tree of Thanks" was part of our annual Thanksgiving activity...


Here are the kids picking out our Christmas tree in late November... my favorite time of the year!!


December rolled around and Oliver was more than ready....


Gaby spent some time with her friends enjoying the Christmas season...


My friend Claudia came to visit from Peru again and I was so happy to see her and her family.. she's truly a special person...


In early December Olivia had her first show choir presentation; she even had a solo and really came out of her shell.  I really love that she can be part of this music program and she has done so well so far.. let's hope she continues to discover her talents through music and art...


We celebrated my dad's birthday in mid-December.. his 65th.. I'm so blessed to have my dad around...


On December 17th, my best friend got married and I was part of her wedding party.  She had her wedding in Key West and it was such a fun weekend; she looked beautiful and as usual, I was so happy to be part of her special day...


Oliver had his first hair cut on December 19th.. let's just say I'm glad we don't have to cut his hair every day.. LOL...


I turned 35 on December 22nd.. it was such a happy day.. I got so many phone calls and messages and I really fell the love.. what an amazing birthday!


Christmas Eve family picture! Even Oliver smiled! 


Here's a picture of the kids on Christmas morning.. apparently Santa did a really good job because the smiles on their faces could not be wiped off! 


My friend Keily came to visit from Barcelona and spent a great afternoon at my house.. Our youngest kids are 11 days apart and we have been friends since 1st grade so it's always a great time to see each other...


Lots of family time in December.. Most of Iggy's family is visiting from Venezuela so we took advantage of it to take this "historic" picture of all the kids with their paternal grandparents.. it's great to see families grow so much... it truly warms my heart!


..and here's a picture of all the cousins and their boys, all born in the same order as their fathers...
Gustavo (41) and his boy Eduardo (22 months), Iggy (40) and his boy Oliver (15 months), Eduardo (37) and his boy Santiago (11 months) and Gabriel (34) and his boy Sebastian (6 months).. I just love this picture so much.. and I'm sure Iggy loves it even more...


...and with that, we close another blessed year; a year of family and love...one to remember 'til the end of times...
We can only hope that 2017 is just as great as this year was...

Happy New Year, everyone!

Wednesday, December 28, 2016

35!

A few days ago I turned 35 and even though this post is slightly delayed and almost lost in all the holiday craze, I figure my latest trip around the sun deserves some "air time"...
This year has been full of ups and downs at the personal level as I have struggled with the many responsibilities that come with being a mother of 3 young children; I have had emotional days where I have felt nothing is "right" in my life; I have spent so much time feeling like a single mother since Iggy travels so much for work... but I have also grown and accomplished so much, including launching a sweet business (The Sweet Business), growing closer to my daughters and feeling more comfortable in my own skin.. it has been such as wonderful year...
As I enter the "non-millennial" age category (that's an inside joke!), I feel so blessed to have the life I have and I cannot wait to see what the new year brings for me...
I am thankful for every friend that I have, every opportunity that has come my way, every tear I have shed and every reason for which I have smiled this year... I am one lucky girl!


This is a picture from my birthday celebration; the cake was delicious and the company was even better...
Happy 35th to me!


Saturday, November 26, 2016

Movie Review: "Moana"

Yesterday we had the chance to watch Disney's latest "gem", a movie about finding your own purpose and following that inner voice that inspires you to follow your dreams.
Moana presents an atypical heroine, with no prince and no crew to help her along; a girl after her own heart, trying to achieve her goals with her own abilities and leading the way to what she has made her life "mission".
She is the girl that everyone loves, the one that makes every woman proud and one who should exemplify every girl out there by telling us never to doubt ourselves in spite of the difficulties found along the way.
Moana's mission revolves around helping her village and restoring what once was a peaceful balance between voyagers and nature. To achieve her goal, she recruits the help of Maui, a demigod who is the reason why the balance was "disturbed" thousands of years ago.
The writers do a great job describing the evolution of this unlikely "friendship" between the two main characters as well as telling the viewer the story of Moana and her ancestors.
In addition to Moana and Maui as the main characters, I was especially captivated by Moana's grandma, who is undoubtedly her number one fan and main inspiration; I saw a lot of my own grandma in her and that's probably why I teared up every time she showed up during the movie... Disney always has a way to make me cry during movies! :)
The setting of the story is a beautiful island and the ocean that surrounds it; it's so pretty I almost want to move there! ;).
With this movie, Disney also goes back to its musical-ish roots with several catchy songs included throughout the movie, which make the pace of it "just right". Despite the music, captivating story and amazing character development, I think the movie did drag a little bit around the middle, but I'm sure the kids didn't notice and I'm probably just being too critical at this point.
I loved the animation, the music, the colors, the characters and the cute story so this one is a winner in my book and gets 4 out of 4 stars...

...and the short before it! Oh my God! Please get to the theater on time because the feature short film "Inner Workings" was probably the highlight of this movie...seriously! How adorable!!!

Sunday, November 20, 2016

11 years!

A couple of days ago on November 18th, Iggy and I celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary and even though I basically write the same thing every year, even after all this time sometimes I can't believe how blessed and lucky I am to have found this amazing man that I get to call my husband. 
Iggy is kind, loving, hard working and incredibly supportive...he truly is one of a kind and I don't brag about him enough but our anniversary is a good time to do so, even though he's so humble he probably wouldn't approve of any of my bragging! :)
Some say that marriage isn't always "rainbows and butterflies" and while I admit that it takes a lot of dedication to make it work, I swear I have it so easy with such a mellow partner. I can truly say that our relationship is amazingly fulfilling and such a blessing in my life. 
I want to thank God for choosing this wonderful man to be my partner in this life journey and I can only pray that He blesses us with many more years of love and happiness. 
Iggy, I love you more than you will EVER know and a lifetime wouldn't be enough to thank you for all your love and everything you do for us. You bring out the best in me and I will love you forever...

Happy anniversary, my love! ;)


Wednesday, November 16, 2016

Fall photo dump

I feel like I haven't blogged in FOREVER... and it's probably true! I can't say that this blogging absence is because of lack of fun and excitement, it's actually because I have been so overwhelmed lately with all of Iggy's trips, the girls' never ending school work, weekend getaways and much more...
A lot has happened since my last blog post including: Oliver started to walk and now he's a full time walker, our annual visit to the pumpkin patch, professional family pictures, a couple of trips to Orlando, Halloween (Oliver won a costume contest!), getting a new president (that's a sore subject for many) and a few other fun things...
So.. for practical purposes, here's a quick photo dump of some of my favorite pictures of the last month or so...
I hope to have more time to blog within the next week or so considering it's my favorite time of the year so I get inspired!

Enjoy the pics! :)


Sunday, October 30, 2016

My blog is 8 years old!

On October 26th my blog turned 8 years old! As silly as it is to celebrate a blog's birthday, I think every year is a huge milestone considering that keeping this blog is about the ONLY thing I do by myself.. and it takes SO MUCH time..even if it's just a few posts per month...
I remember starting this blog 8 years ago, Olivia was a little over 1 year old and I was looking for a way to document all the funny things she did and all the big things that happened in her little life.  I started keeping a hand written journal but soon got tired of writing and, let's be real, paper is very vulnerable so a virtual blog was a much better idea.  Initially the blog was called "A World of My Own" and I really loved that name because this blog has always been my "happy place", where I come to put my feelings into words and a keepsake I plan on gifting my children at some point.
With the years, the blog evolved into a repository of all things "mom" and I realized that "Stories of a Happy Mom" was a much better name because my world wasn't really "my own" anymore and I happily share it with my family day in and day out.. so in 2012 I changed my blog's name to its current one.. the fact that the domain I wanted wasn't available may have also played a part in the name change.. LOL!
Aside from documenting my children's lives, this blog also helps me remember and relive our happy stories; to this day one of my favorite things is to read through old posts and reminisce and now that experience is even better because the girls enjoy doing it with me and they smile when they read about the little things they did and all the adventures they have been part of throughout their lives...
So... I don't plan to stop blogging any time soon and as much as people think blogging is a form of "oversharing" and/or "overexposure", I find it to be one of the most enriching channels of communication with friends and loved ones and I will keep doing it as long as I possibly can until one day I can turn this into a book that hopefully my children will cherish forever.
If you have been a frequent follower or a sporadic visitor, I thank you from the bottom of my heart and hope you continue to visit whenever you have time!

Happy Birthday, blog! ;)

Saturday, October 15, 2016

As "Election Day" gets near....

It seems like yesterday when I wrote this post about my position regarding politics on Facebook. At the time I wrote it I felt like things got really "hot" and many of my cyber friends verged on offensive and "out of line"...
Four years later, even though my opinion on this subject hasn't changed much, I feel like social media is simply out of control when it comes to politics...way more than it was back in 2012.
We all know this election is "special", it is by far the most controversial and divisive one I have witnessed in my lifetime and we also know that most people have pretty strong opinions about one candidate or the other...that's life, that's politics and that's never going to change!
With that in mind, there are still some things I'd like to point out based on my observations during the months leading up to the upcoming election, and this applies to EVERYONE, no matter who they're voting for, no matter where they stand....
1. Not everyone will agree with you
You might have an awesome friendship with someone, you might find a lot of affinity with certain people but that doesn't mean that person will always agree with you; this is particularly true in the case of politics so keep that in mind when you're engaging in a political argument with a friend or family member.
2. There is dirt and sh*t on both candidates and people WILL talk about it!
"The lesser of two evils" is a phrase that has taken a life of its own in this election. It's almost entertaining to see what the next scandalous finding will be, what the next leak will tear down one of the candidates and especially what people will write about the "crappy" candidates we are face with. Almost as entertaining is the fact that the polarization is such that as much as some people think one candidate is "far worse" than the other, there will always be someone that thinks the exact opposite and that, my friends, won't change much either, so don't waste your time trying to convince anyone that one is worse than the other, or viceversa...guess what? Nobody's perfect...especially politicians!
3. Being rude and offensive won't get you very far
As much as I bite my tongue and try not to comment on any political post, some people are so rude and offensive that I can't ignore them.  If/when you're going to engage in a political fight with someone online, think before replying...is the fight really worth it? will you get your point across? will your comment add any true value to the argument? are you willing to lose a friend over politics? When someone starts name calling, they already lost the argument and it's not worth stooping down to their level!
4. You won't convince anyone to change their mind by posting a link on the internet
This one is somewhat related to my first point. I find it funny when people engage in political arguments and base their opinions on obscure links intended to help them prove their point. It turns out that there is "research" and "evidence" that can help you prove ANY point and most of these article links are biased (to support whichever side!) and not very objective. If you want to convince someone to change their mind, debate with you OWN ideas! Trust me, you'll have a better shot at it!
5. Nobody will hate you for supporting a candidate, but they will sure resent you no matter what!
I have read so many posts that say "if you support such and such, do me a favor and unfriend me now!".. really? wow! Friendships cannot possibly be so weak as to not be able to withstand an election. If your friends love you or hate you based on who you're voting for, there needs to be some serious thinking done by you and them! Vote for whoever you want, who cares if people "hate" you for it?
6. Whoever wins will be EVERYONE's president. Whether we like it or not, there will be a winner come November 8th and that winner will be OUR president. So many people post things like "I can't believe I have to vote for one of these two clowns" or "These two can't be our only options"..but guess what? We do have to vote for one of them and they ARE our only options (I don't mean to dismiss other candidates on the ballot, but let's be real!..they have no chance!). So let's stop the divisiveness and accept the fact that politics are cyclical and ever-changing and our American values are stronger than anything...or at least, I like to think so!

With that said, I can't wait for November 8th and I can't wait for my news feeds to go back to babies, food and fashion...
Happy Election, everyone!